Keeping a positive outlook

Think, speak and feel positively about yourself, others and situations.

Always visualise yourself and your way of life, the way you want it. Dwell on what you want, then you will gravitate towards that.

Don't place limits on yourself. The biggest limitation is the thought "I can't."

Discipline your mind. You are in control. You decide what you put in there, so you determine what you get back.

See problems as opportunities to learn.

Treat yourself well. Make time for yourself as a necessity, not as an obligation.

Surround yourself with good people, those who support you in your efforts to change.

Have an attitude of gratitude. This ensures your attention is focused on what you want.

And ultimately, realise how valuable the present moment is. Make the most of every moment.

- Bridget Menezes

About GIRL...

When a GIRL is quiet,
Millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at you with eyes full of question,
She is wondering how long will you be around.

When a GIRL answers "I'm fine" after a few seconds,
She is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you,
She is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL says I love you,
She means it.

When a GIRL says she misses you,
No one in this world can miss you more than her.

比尔盖兹给毕业生的话

人生是不公平的，习惯去接受它吧！

这个世界不会在乎你的自尊，这个世界期望你先做出成绩，再去强调自己的感受。

你不会一离开学校就有百万年薪，你不会马上就是拥有行动电话的副总裁，二者你都必须努力赚来。

如果你觉得你的老师很凶，等你有了老板就知道了，老板是没有工作任期保障的！

在快餐店煎汉堡并不是作践自己，你的祖父母对煎汉堡有完全不同的定义：机会！

如果你一事无成，不是你父母的错，所以不要只会对自己犯的错发牢骚，从错误中去学习。

在你出生前，你的父母并不像现在这般无趣，他们变成这样是因为忙着付你的开销，洗你的衣服，听你吹嘘自己有多了不起。所以在你拯救被父母这代人破坏的热带雨林前，现整理一下自己的房间吧！

在学校里可能有赢家和输家，在人生中却还言之过早。学校可能有不断给你机会找到正确答案，真实人生中却完全不是这么回事。

人生不是学期制，人生没有寒暑假，没有哪个雇主有兴趣协助你找寻自我，请用自己的空暇做这件事吧！

电视上演的并不是真实的人生。真实人生中每个人都要离开咖啡厅去上班。

对书呆子好一点，你未来很可能就成为其中一个工作。

我感恩

一大早被响起的闹钟吵醒，那表示我还活着。

有巨额的电费账单，因为那表示我冷气吹得很爽。

能找到最远的那个停车位，因为那表示我还能走路，且还有幸能有辆车。

一天结束时的疲劳和肌肉酸痛，因为那表示我有拼命工作的能力。

有各种对政府不满的抱怨，因为那表示我们有言论自由。

我缴税，因为那表示我有工作。

有一堆衣服要洗烫，因为那表示我有衣服穿。

教堂礼拜时我身后五音不全的女士，因为那表示我还听得到。

有待修整的草地，待清理的窗户，和待修理的排水沟，那表示我有个家。

衣服越来越紧，那表示我吃得很好。

有阴影陪伴我的劳动，那表示我在明亮的阳光下。

最后，感恩过量的电子邮件，因为那表示有许多朋友会想到我。

证严法师静思语

人间的苦难像一面镜子，反映出众生的苦，使我们生起警惕心、感恩心和精进心。

多接触人事，多一分历练，就多增长智慧，不要怕日常生活中的人事，它可以磨练我们的心志。

施于的人比接受的人有能力，所以，不要一直希望别人给我什么，要想：我能为别人做什么。

以柔软心接受佛法，则收获丰富；抱着刚强的心听法，就会觉得每句话都如利剑穿心。

双眼虽小，却看得到很大的空间，为什么我们的心不能宽广些，装进整个宇宙呢？

修行并非脱离人群或逃避现实，关心众生是否能脱离苦海，远比自己是否得到解脱重要。

天寒地冻时，火可以取暖，但是太靠近却会被烫伤；放不下身外之物，就像放不下手上的热铁一般。

人有生老病死的生命，也有永久的精神慧命，我们要利用无常的生命，追求永恒的慧命。

想想……

合理就好，不需要太完美；请相信，人有缺点才可爱。

有人说当你失去一个人的时候，最难做到的就是忘记他（她）
可怎么忘记后比没有忘记时还难受
原来忘记是暂时的，回忆是永远的……

别总是忙、然后累
别以为自己渺小、未来很大
其实外面的世界触手可及
其实世外桃源就在心上
真走不下去了，就休息吧……

爱上一个人只是一瞬间
何一个人相处只是一段时间
但要忘记一个人却需要一生的时间

对人生加以思索的人，觉得人生是喜剧；
只频感触而未思索的，便觉人生是悲剧。

在时间的断片与小块中，原可做许多事情。
这些片段的时间每日都有，
大部分人荒废了它；但最后算起来，
这些时间对人的生命是一个不小的消减。

弱者困于环境；智者利用环境。

如果“拥有”那么难，那就学习“放下”吧！

仇生仇，爱生爱；
多一点欣赏，就少一点挑剔；
多一点鼓励，就少一点批评。

许多烦恼都是出于自己的想象，而并非真实存在。

骄傲使天使沦为魔鬼。

为了确保别人无条件的爱你，你就不要在别人身上加注任何条件。

在下判断之时，应先破除内心的成见；
否则，你将会用一种错误的标准去衡量，
就像患黄疸病的人，把一切都看成是黄色。

人生最大的成就在于不断重建自己，使自己终于能知道如何生活。

对未来，我们的要务是成就它，而不是去预测它。

要别人爱你只有一个秘诀，就是做一个值得爱的人。

饶恕他人乃最光荣的报复。

人生最重要的不是握一手好牌，而是把坏牌打好。

关于金钱

有了钱，你可以买楼，但不可以买到一个家。
有了钱，你可以买钟表，但不可以买到时间。
有了钱，你可以买到一张床，但不可以买到充足的睡眠。
有了钱，你可以买书，但不可以买到知识。
有了钱，你可以买到医疗服务，但不可以买到健康。
有了钱，你可以买到地位，但不可以买到自尊。
有了钱，你可以买到血液，但不可以买到生命。
有了钱，你可以买性，但不可以买到爱。

10 things God won't ask

1. God won't ask what your job title was, He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.
2. God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet, He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.
3. God won't ask the square footage of your house, He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.
4. God won't ask how many friends you had, He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.
5. God won't ask in what neighbourhood you lived, He'll ask how you treated your neighbours.
6. God won't ask what kind of car you drove, He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.
7. God won't ask about the colour of your skin, He'll ask about the content of your character.
8. God won't ask what your highest salary was, He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.
9. God won't ask why it took you so long to seek Salvation. He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.
10. God won't have to ask how many people you forwarded this to, He already knows your decision.

有一種朋友

有一種朋友,叫做損友
是常在你心愛人面前挖苦你,虧你,吐槽你
是常常扯你後腿,但他卻是個從不真正傷害過你的人

有一種朋友,叫做開心果
是吊兒啷當時多,正經八百時少,
是常常惹的你火冒三丈,逗的周圍的人捧肚大笑,
但他卻是個從不做出令你無法原諒他的人

又有一種朋友,叫做真心朋友
他或許不常陪你歡笑,但他卻是個能與你相擁而泣的人
你或許常常忽略他,不常找他,但他卻是個願花時間陪伴你的人
他或許不是詼諧逗趣,但他卻是個曾叫你感動莫名的人
他或許不善與你哈拉,但他卻是個聽你說話的人

真心朋友,他是個呆子,
他不會讓你露宿街頭,他會為了你的棲身之處而到處奔波;
他把你的事當作他的事;
他不會讓你感到無助;他不會丟你獨自一人孤單

真心朋友,是個呆子
卻是你無法捨棄,一個你最愛的呆子!!

幸福是怎麼???

幸福是睡得好......
幸福是您喜歡的人也喜歡您
幸福是隨便走走沒目的什麼也不想
幸福是冬天等巴士時喝熱維他奶
幸福是看一本精采的好書
幸福是想起心上人而偷笑
幸福是情人用體溫為你送暖
幸福是生活簡單
幸福是和心愛的人一起看星
每個人都需要幸福
您幸福嗎？

天天，第一个想到的是……

第一个想到的是你
为什么会是你呢？我也不知道。缘分吗？
不过，什么叫做缘分呢？

一见钟情？相知相惜？平平淡淡？日久生情？

我想，只有真正努力的人，才能遇上好缘分。
朋友，我想对你说三个感谢……

第一个谢谢：
你让我走入你的生命，做你的朋友，
或许我不是你最精彩的，但是我总是尽力做到最好。
信我，我一定会。

第二个谢谢：
你愿意走进我的生命，扮演朋友的角色。
或许你不是最好的，但却是我生命中最精彩的。
我一定会珍惜你。

第三个谢谢：
你这一路走来，很多的包容、安慰、关心、用心。
所有的深刻都在你给我的回忆里，永远不会消失。

在这美丽的星空里……你在想谁呢？
我就当然想起你啦。

当你孤单时，你会想起谁呢？
当然，我还是依然的会想起你。

朋友，你我有缘做到朋友是很难得的，
只要大家将心交出来，没有事情是不可能的，
不过千万不可勉强，你说对吗？

人的思绪是复杂而凌乱的……
那么，当夜深人静时……你又会想起谁呢？

我回想起，与你相识的种种，
也会想起，发生过的点点滴滴。
包括快乐和不快乐的。

直到我们年老时，是否会像现在这样坐在电脑前互诉心声？
到那个时候，还很久呢。也许，我们不再联络了……
也许，我永远也没有机会再见到你了……

不过，无论如何……你永远是我最真诚相对的好朋友……

如果你有很喜欢或很关心的人，
就把我这封信息转发给他吧！
也许往后的日子会有改变。
别忘了，有我天天为你祝福。祝你永远幸福。
当然也可以送回来给我……我会等你。

True?

景气好时，多数人选择“投资”；景气差时，多数人选择“投胎”。

做人难，出生率逐年下降；做事难，失业率经年不降。

公司赚钱，老板吃肉，员工和汤；公司倒闭，老板吃官司，员工喝西北风。

坏事做多了，小心会犯“业障”；傻事做多了，小心是患“智障”。

小人有“不义之财”；穷人有“不易之财”。

爱情与婚姻

女人婚后，希望有“安定”的生活；男人婚后，希望有“安静”的生活。

婚后的男人，只顾“耳根清静”；婚后的女人，只顾“不见为净”。

婚前，男人把时间花在女人身上；婚后，女人把时间花在男人身上。

没有情人的，很讨厌情人节；很多情人的，更讨厌情人节。

谈恋爱，最好是“有心人”；谈结婚，最好是“有钱人”。

男人在一起，比的是“鬼头”；女人凑一堆，比的是“行头”。

以前，“王子与公主”的故事是童话；现在，“老夫与老妻”的故事是神话。

如果婚姻是爱情的坟墓，那模范夫妻充其量，不过是“示范公墓”罢了。如果婚姻是爱情的坟墓，那一年一次的结婚周年庆祝，便是在“扫墓”了。

完全相反的个性，结婚时叫“互补”；完全相反的个性，离婚时叫“个性不和”。

恋爱时的花费，证明爱情“真实”；结婚后的开支，证明婚姻“无价”。

热恋时，再夸张的谎言都能听成是情话；结婚后，再认真的情话只会当成是废话。

在爱情中，有人“视死如归”；婚姻中，有人“视归如死”。

别人的另一半，像“艺术品”；自己的另一半，像“日用品”。

婚前的男女，“形影”常相左右；婚后的男女，“意见”常相左右。

还是情人时，往往“客气”多；结为夫妻后，变成“火气”多。

爱情的开始，是希望给“对方”一个未来；爱情的结束，是希望给“自己”一个未来。

富人结婚，最爱“门当户对”；穷人结婚，最怕“门当户对”。

婚前，男人经常找女人“讨论”；婚后，男人只告诉女人“结论”。

爱情像口香糖，很容易；婚姻像麦芽糖，很困难。

RaNdoM QuoTes

When I was born I was so surprised
I didn't talk for a year and a half

- Gracie Allen (1906 - 1964)

Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense, and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable. - Avon

The only thing worth stealing is a kiss from a sleeping child. - Joe Houldsworth

There's no point in being grown up if you can't be childish sometimes. - Doctor Who

I am careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence, I can reach for; perfection is God's business. - Michael J. Fox

When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you. - Lao-Tzu

You don't stop laughing because you grow old. You grow old because you stop laughing. - Michael Pritchard

Friendship PoeM

I would rather live one day knowing you are my bud than live forever without you by my side.

Of all the friends I've ever met,

You're the one one I won't forget.

And if I die

Before you do

I'll go to heaven

And wait for you

I'll give the angels

Back their wings

And risk the loss

Of everything

Just to prove

My friendship is true.

FriEndS arE...

Friends are: Those who help you to say CHEESE......

Friends are: To play pranks together without getting caught...

Friends are: To fight with each other and for each other

Friends are: To gossip together on any topic.

Friends are: Those who think and care about you...when you are far away from them...

Friendship Quotes

Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief. - Marcus Tullius Cicero

Friendship is a horizon which expands whenever we approach it. - E. R. Hazlip

珍惜一切

一年有365天
一天有24小时
24小室等于1440分钟
1440分钟就等于86400秒
那，一年就有8760个小时
或525600分钟
或3153600秒钟……

虽然3153600秒钟，看起来是一个非常大的数目字，
但是我已经花了551664000秒钟来换取我这一事无成的十七年……
但是，你也用了120秒来看这一篇东西
那么，你是不是觉得很浪费时间呢？
所以，请珍惜人生的每一秒，每一份，每一事，每一天，每一月，甚至每一年。
每一个人都不会有很多的“一年”！
所以，你更加应该珍惜身旁的一切，
例如：一个机会、一个朋友、一个知己、一段友情、一段亲情、一段爱情，
甚至身旁的每一件东西！千万别让他们溜走哦！

还没得到的东西，你会很渴望能得到；
但是当你得到了之后，你又会觉得没有乐趣了；
当你觉得没有乐趣了，你就会选择放弃；
但当你放弃后，你又会觉得很可惜……
哎……人生就是这么矛盾啦！

而人生有很多东西，是失去了之后才知道自己曾经拥有！
但是，失去了的东西，可能这一生再也得不回了……
所以我在这，劝劝你千万别轻易放弃一段感情……
选择放弃前请深深地在考虑清楚一遍！

如果今天发生了很多不如意的事情，请别伤心难过。
虽然每一个人的一生中都不会有很多的“一年”
但是，每一个人的一生中有很多的“一天”！
相信我吧！明天会更好，把今天不如意的事情都忘掉，
因为明天又是新的一天了！而天总无绝人之路啊……别伤心吧！
即使着世界已经没有一样东西是属于你的，你也不必担心，因为你还有我这一个好朋友嘛！

好朋友？

好朋友也是需要一起成长的
在一间相互交流的情况下
最容易激发出我们对这世界的另一种看法
更容易获得我们自己所意想不到的收获
更让我们知道一些事物的处理态度

但若你不说
我也只能假想你是认同我的……

***

谁才会是你的好朋友呢……
通常想法、个性差不多时
就有可能成为你的好朋友……

***

那我们要如何从朋友身上激发出对生命的热情呢？
我们常常会觉得：唉！朋友嘛！他一定知道得啦！不用说了啦！
其实，他根本什么都不知道……
误会也就是从这里萌生的……

17 $ign$ of falling in love

SEVENTEEN:
You look at their profile constantly.

SIXTEEN:
When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.

FIFTEEN:
You read their Texts and Ims (instant messages) over and over again.

FOURTEEN:
You walk really slow when you're with them.

THIRTEEN:
You feel shy whenever they're around.

ELEVEN:
When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.

TEN:
You smile when you hear their voice.

NINE:
When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.

EIGHT:
You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.

SEVEN:
They're all you think about.

SIX:
You get high just from their scent.

FIVE:
You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.

FOUR:
You would do anything for them, just to see them.

THREE:
While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.

TWO:
You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn't notice number twelve was missing.

ONE:
You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.

照顾自己，朋友

你很“喜欢”自己……
可是，却好像不怎么“爱”你自己

该吃饭的时候
你总是忘记

该睡觉的时候
你总是熬夜写日记

雨天出门
你懒得带伞

寒风来袭
你又懒得加外衣

医生说要常常运动
你却定时定量补给咖啡因
你简直是在折磨你自己的身体

你说你很“喜欢”自己
可是，却好像不知道怎么好好地对自己

好好吃饭……
好好休息……
好好工作……
好好读书……
好好穿衣……
这就是好好对自己

爱……
有时候其实没什么大道理
也不过就是从吃饭穿衣这种日常琐事做起
我关心你，希望你也好好的保重自己

祝福你，我的朋友~

相遇就像是随机抽样

人与人的相遇就像是一个随机抽样
在不同的时间空间之中，彼此相遇……
有时候，你非常喜欢一个人，但是你知道
你们根本不能在一起……
爱你的人，你不爱……你不爱的人，却是那样的爱你
这复杂的习题却又如此的跟着我们
解不开也算不清
人家说在对的时间爱一个人，你是幸福的
在错的空间遇到一个人，你是痛苦的
有些人你就是有一种一见如故的感受
有些人你怎样就是说不上几句话
像是一部公车……大家在这一站上车
又在另一站下车，事事总是充满变数与未知……
曾经感情很好的朋友
即使感觉还在
可是大家都有自己的事情而疏离
所以大家要珍惜每次都偶然邂逅
因为你根本不知道
错过了这次
你跟他会在哪个空间相遇
也许这是你们唯一一次的相遇

Meaning of kisses

The constitution of Love code:
If you love someone, show them and say so!

Statement:
If a kiss is the language of love, then we have a lot to talk about!

Methods of love:

Kiss on the ear - I'm horny
Kiss on the cheek - We're friends
Kiss on the hand - I adore you
Kiss on the shoulder - I want you
Kiss on the lips - I love you
Holding hands - We can learn to love each other
A wink - Let's get it on
Slap on the butt - Watch out
Playing with the ear - I can't live without you
Arms around the waist - I love you too much to let go
Pulling hair on head - Tell me you love me
Looking into each other's eyes - Let's get romantic
Holding on tight - Don't let go

Advice:
If you are kissing someone, close your eyes. It's not nice to stare!

Show your CARE TODAY!

To realize the value of ONE YEAR,
想知道“一整年”的价值

ask the student who has failed a class.
就去问被当过的学生

To realize the value of ONE MONTH,
想知道“一个月”的价值

ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.
就去问曾经早产的母亲

To realize the value of ONE WEEK,
想知道“一礼拜”的价值

ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.
就去问周报的编辑

To realize the value of ONE HOUR,
想知道“一小时”的价值

ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.
就去问在等待见面的情侣

To realize the value of ONE MINUTE,
想知道“一分钟”的价值

ask a person who missed the train.
就去问刚错过火车的人

To realize the value of ONE SECOND,
想知道“一秒钟”的价值

ask a person who just avoided an accident.
就去问刚闪过一场车祸的人

To realize the value of ONE MLLISECOND,
想知道“百分之一秒”的价值

ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics.
就去问奥运的银牌得主

Treasure every moment that you have!
珍惜你所拥有的每一刻时间

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery.
昨日已成历史，而明日仍是个谜

Today is a gift
今天是珍贵的礼物

that's why it's called the present!
那时它为何被称作“当下”的原因

Show your friends how much you care!
让你的朋友知道你有多在乎他们！

真正的VS普通

一个普通的朋友从未看过你哭泣。
一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的眼泪湿尽。

一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏。
一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯录上。

一个普通的朋友会带瓶葡萄酒参加你的派对。
一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备并且为了帮你打扫而晚点走。

一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打来。
一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打来。

一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰。
一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰。

一个普通的朋友对你的罗曼史感到好奇。
一个真正的朋友可以威胁你说出来。

一个普通的朋友在拜访时，像一个客人一样。
一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西。

一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束。
一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊。

一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他。
一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁！

*一个球是一个圈子，没有起始，也没有结束。
它把我们结合在一起，像一圈子的朋友。
但是留给你去看的秘密宝藏就是你给予我的珍贵友谊。
今天我把友谊的球传送给你。
把它传给任何一位你的朋友……*

青蛙的故事

从前，有一群青蛙组织了一场攀爬比赛。
比赛的终点是：一个非常高的铁塔的塔顶。
一大群青蛙围着铁塔看比赛，给它们加油。
比赛开始了……

老实说：群蛙中没有谁相信这些小小的青蛙回到着塔顶，他们都在议论：“这太难了！！它们肯定到不了塔顶！” “他们绝不可能成功的，塔太高了！”

听到这些，一只接一只的青蛙开始泄气了，除了那些情绪高涨的几只还在往上爬。
群蛙继续喊着：“这太难了！！没有谁能爬上顶的！”

越来越多的青蛙累坏了，退出了比赛。但，有一只却还在越爬越高，一点没有放弃的意思。
最后，其他所有的青蛙都退出了比赛，除了那一只它费了很大的劲，终于成为唯一一只到这塔顶的胜利者。

很自然，其他所有的青蛙都想知道它是怎么成功的。
有一只青蛙跑上前去问那只胜利者，它哪来那么大的力气跑完全程？

它发现：这只青蛙是个聋子！

这个故事的寓意：永远不要听信那些习惯消极悲观看问题的人，因为他们只会粉碎你内心最美好的梦想与希望！

总是记住你听到的充满力量的话语，因为所有你听到的或读到的话语都会影响你的行为。

所以，总是要保持：积极，乐观！

而且，最重要的是：当有人告诉你你的梦想不可能成真时，你要变成“聋子”，对此充耳不闻！

要总是想着：我一定能做到！

The story of the FouR CandLes

The four candles blowed slowly.

The ambiance was so soft that you could hear them talking.

The first one said, "I am Peace! However, nobody can keep me lit. I believe I will go out." Its flame diminished rapidly and went out completely.

The second one said, "I am Faith! Most of all, I am no longer indispensable, so it doesn't make any sense that I stay lit any longer." When it finished talking, a breeze blew on it softly, putting it out.

Sadly, the third candle spoke in its turn, "I am Love! I haven't gotten the strength to stay lit. People put me aside and don't understand my importance. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them." And waiting no longer it went out.

Suddenly, a child entered the room and saw three candles not burning. "Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit till the end." Saying this, the child began to cry.

Then the fourth candle said, "Don't be afraid, while I am still burning we can re-light the other candles, for I am Hope!"

With shining eyes, the child took the candle of Hope and lit the other candles.

The flame of Hope should never go out from your life...and that each of us can mantain Hope, Faith, Peace and Love!!!

The Lovers of the Heart

[note: This whole thing must be written by a guy =P]

In order to form a more perfect kiss, enable the mighty hug to promote to whom we please but one kiss.

Article 1:
Statement of Love: The Kiss

1. Kiss on the hand: I adore you
2. Kiss on the cheek: I just want to be friends
3. Kiss on the neck: I want you
4. Kiss on the lips: I love you
5. Kiss on the ears: I am just playing
6. Kiss anywhere else: let's not get carried away
7. Look in your eyes: kiss me
8. Playing with your hair: I can't live without you
9. Hand on your waist: I love you too much to let you go

Article 2:
The Three Steps

1. Girls: If any guy gets fresh with you, slap him.
2. Guys: If any girl slaps you, her intentions are still good.
3. Guys & Girls: Close your eyes when kissing, it is rude to stare!

Article 3:
The Commandments

1. Thou shall not squeeze too hard.
2. Thou shall not ask for a kiss, but take one.
3. Thou shall kiss at every oppotunity.

*Remember*

A peach is a peach
A plum is a plum
A kiss isn't a kiss
Without some tongue.
So open up your mouth
close your eyes,
and give your tongue some exercise!!

A few reasons why guys like girls:

1. They will always smell good even it is just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. The ease in which they fit into our arms
5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worth while
8. Because they are always warm even when it is minus 30 outside
9. The way they look good no matter what they wear
10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she's the most beautiful thing on this earth
11. How cute they are when they argue
12. The way her hand always finds yours
13. The way they smile
14. The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just ahd a big fight
15. The way she says 'let's not fight anymore' even though you know that an hour later...
16. The way they kiss when you do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when you say 'I love you'
18. Actually... just the way they kiss you
19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry
20. The way they apologize for crying over something silly
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22. The way the apologize when it does hurt
23. The way they say 'I miss you'
24. The way you miss them
25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn't hurt her anymore...

Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them...it matters not.
Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you.
When you lok them in the eyes, travelling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart.
We love them for a million reasons, no paper would do it justice.
It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart.
A feeling.
Only felt.

失去一个朋友只要一秒钟

主动表示善意，真的不表示懦弱……
很多好朋友会为一句话而伤了和气，损及友谊，
甚至不讲话不往来。
要交一个朋友，需要很长时间的培养，
但是要失去一个朋友只要一秒钟。
当然有人会说：“少他一个也不会死！”
是不会死，而且离死太远。
只是，那样的失去，却是生命中很大的遗憾。

一位长者曾很深的表示：“当一个人的生命接近结束时，他们回视自己这一生的时候，印象最深的，不是自己做了什么大的事业，有什么好的名声，而是自己曾经拥有的爱有多少。”

自己爱过谁，谁又爱过自己，
那才是生命中最真实，有意义的。
生命中，许多原本属于我们的幸福、完美，
常常因我们的轻忽而恣意挥霍，不懂得珍惜，
有常常因我们的自负面子
和不必要的坚持而使得良机错失，
姻缘折散，朋友反目…

想想，这中间真正的受害人是谁呢？
若只是为了放不下矜持，
为争一口莫名所以气，而死拗着，
那不是酷，不是有种，也不是坚强，而只是顽固。
与挚爱相比，那些小小的自我，实在太微不足道了！

真的！
如果你爱你的朋友，尊重他们，
何妨先表示关怀，何妨先示好，
如果你心中长藏着一些感谢，
有些话要告诉某一个人，
千万别一直闷着，
找个时间告诉那个人吧！

在你有生之年好好感受一下，爱的温暖…
那感觉真好…

To all my dear friends…
谢谢你们一直陪伴着我
只想告诉你们～！有你们真好～～！

The TruTh about HUGS!

There's no such thing as a bad hug, only good ones and great ones!

Hugs are nonfattening and they don't cause cancer or cavities...

Hugs are all natural with no preservaties, artificial ingredients or pesticide residue...

Hugs are cholesterol-free, naturally sweet, 100% wholesome and they are a completely renewable resource...

Hugs are easy to care for, they don't require batteries, tune-ups or X-rays...

Hugs are non taxable, fully returnable and energy efficient...

Hugs are safe in all kinds of weather...

In fact, hugs are especially good for cold and rainy days and...

exceptionally effective in treating problems like bad dreams or Monday blues...

Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone you could hug today, because when you give one, you get one right back your way!

TruE FriEnDshIp

Once in a life time
you find a friend
who touches not only your heart
but also your soul

Once in a lifetime
you discover someone
who stands beside you,
not over you

Once in a lifetime
if you are lucky
you find someone
as I have foudn you.

Very special people
we can be ourselves with,
talk with, laugh with,
hope with and believe with...

我的朋友

我的朋友
在我面前说我坏话
在我背后说我好话
在我发牢骚是不说话

我的朋友
为了泛统或泛独跟我争得面红耳赤翻桌子
一星期后打电话问我要不要去他家包饺子

我的朋友
一年一次越洋电话告诉我他好开心
总是当他正烂醉在酒吧听靡靡之音

我的朋友
从不记得回我贺年卡
好像他不记得五十万
不是他欠我是我欠他

我的朋友
冲出门慌忙拦住我问：do you have a minute?
端出一盘刚出炉的cookie说：taste it, quick!

我的朋友
有的陪我长大有的教我长大
共同志趣是喜欢成长不想发达

我的朋友
从小朋友便老朋友
说：希望我们两家的小朋友
将来也成为像我们这样的朋友

朋友是~一辈子的事~

一个人的早餐只是一个蛋
两个人的早餐就是一顿爱
一个人的拥抱只能抱住风
两个人的拥抱真实得发痛
一个人的快乐多么单薄
两个人的快乐满出了你我
一个人的痛苦苦得没有尽头
两个人的痛苦至少有个人说说

我觉得朋友是
~一辈子的事~
你们都是我最重要的朋友

GOD...always answers prayer

When the idea is not right, God says, "No."
No - when the idea is not the best,
No - when the idea is absolutely wrong,
No - when though it may help you, it could create problems for someone else.

When the time is not right, God says, "Slow."
What a catastrophe it would be if God answered every prayer at the snap of your finges.
Do you know what would happen? God would become your servant, not your master.
Suddenly, God would be working for you instead of you working for God.

Remember: God's delays are not God's denials. God's timing is perfect. Patience is what we need in prayer.

When you are not right, God says, "Grow."
The selfish person has to grow in unselfishness.
The cautious person must grow courage.
The timid person must grow in confidence.
The dominating person must grow insensitivity.
The critical person must grow in tolerance.
The negative person must grow in positive attitudes.
The pleasure-seeking person must grow in compassion for suffering people.

When everything is all right, God says, "Yes."
Then miracles happen:
A hopeless alcoholic is set free!
A drug addict finds release!
A doubter becomes as a child in his belief.
Diseased tissue responds to treatment, and healing begins.
The door to your dream suddenly swings open and there stands God saying, "Go!"

- Dr. Robert Schuller

Call ME...

If one day you feel like crying...
Call me.
I don't promise you that...
I will make you laugh
But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away -
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stop,
But I can run with you.

If one day you don't want to listen to anybody...
Call me and...
I promise to be very quiet.

But...
If one day you call and there is no answer...

Come fast to see me...
Perhaps I need you.

Be Optimistic! ^_^

Laugh often.

Indulge in the things you truly love.

…even when it seems hopeless.

There is always someone who loves you more than you know.

It will get better

Give it your all

Be weird whenever you have the chance

Always be up for surprises.

Love someone with all of your heart.

Hold onto good friends, they are few and far between!

Always try to see the glass half full.

生命无价

一个喷嚏，不需要喷得好元，也可以传播恶毒细菌。

一份工作，不需要薪金优厚，也可以做到没命。

一个男人，不需要好帅，也有权万尝不同枕边人。

一个女人，不需要天使样貌魔鬼身材，也可以淫乱不堪。

一个吻，不需要纠缠交葛轻轻柔柔的，也可以很深情。

一份关心，不需要长篇大论短短的一句，也可以很温暖。

一个知己，不需要天天见面心深联系，也可以很长久。

一对夫妻，不需要每天浪漫手牵手，也可以感受到爱。

这个地球不会因你失去了一份工，失去了一举大生意，社区了贵重钱财，失去了自己爱的人，失去了爱自己的人，失去了一段感情，失去了一些未开始的感情，失去了一丝盼望……而停留。

世事无常，顺逆难料，唯独是生命无价！

The greatest of all, is...love.

A great love?
It's when you shed tears and still you care for him,
it's when he ignores you and still long for him.
It's when he begins to love another
and yet you still smile and say I'm happy for you.

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Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive,
not how you listen but how you understand,
not what you see but how you feel,
and not how you let go but how you hold on.

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Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one who hurts you the most,
and sometimes the friend who takes you into his arms and cries when you cry turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted.

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God gave you..
two legs to walk
two hands to hold
two ears to hear
two eyes to see

But why did he give you only one heart?
It's because he gave the other one to someone for you to find.

Don't wait 不要等待

Don't wait for the best job, to begin to work.
不要非要等到一份最好的工作，才要开始工作

Don't wait for to be lonely, to recognize the value of a friend.
不要等到寂寞了，才明白朋友的价值和重要

Don't wait to be loved, to love.
不要等被爱了以后，才要去爱

Don't wait for anybody else's pain, to ask for apology...
不要等到别人受伤了，才要乞求原谅

...neither separation to make it up.
也不要等分开了，才要挽回

Don't wait..
不要等待

..because you don't know how long it will take.
因为你不知道等待需要花多少时间

Easy vs DifficulT

Easy is to get a place is someone's address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone's heart.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others.
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes.

Easy is to talk without thinking.
Difficult is to refrain the tongue.

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others.
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness.

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others.
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult to follow

Easy is keep the friendship with words.
Difficult is to keep it with meanings.

懂得珍惜每个陪你走一段路的人

想起旧情人，心里不期然有些唏嘘；
除非你知道由始至终对方也是在欺骗你，
否则每一段逝去的爱情始终有其价值。
人生的路那么长，恰如由闹市走到草原，
由草原走到海滩，由海滩走到沙漠,
在每一个阶段也有人陪你走，免你于孤独，其实还怨什么？

分手当刻固然伤心，但每一个经历过分手的人，
如果想起当天呼天怨地的情景，不尽会笑自己傻：
我现在不是活得好端端的？
如果可以豁达的想想，那一段日子没有他/她的出现，
真不知怎么把空余的时间填允。

有时分手不一定是为了性格不和，感情丢淡或第三者，
当一个人的生命列车要转轨时，
在旁的伴侣未必能并肩而行。
明明恋爱得如火如荼，但为了升学，为了移民，
为了转工而受到时空阻隔，
不能天天见面，渐渐感情不再巩固，而人也在变。
因为要成长，因为要上进而错失的爱情是凄美的。

甚至我会这样想，一个人的生命是路遥遥般漫长，
只要我能够陪他走过十分一的路程已经是一种荣幸。

给懂得去珍惜每个陪你走一段路的人

想想在我们的人生中有多少的人在陪着我们走？

有些只是惊鸿一瞥
有些是点头之交
有些君子之交
有些手帕之交
也有些长长久久
不管是什么样的朋友
都在我们人生的某个时间
某个人生的点
与我们相遇了

不管相遇的时间是短或是长是深或是浅
我们都该珍惜
因为在他们身上让我们学到了不少的东西
即使在当下可能会觉得那个人不可理喻，顽固不灵，尖酸刻薄
但也因为他的这些让我们学会了宽容

甚而因为有这些人才让我们更珍惜那些没有不可理喻，没有顽固不懂，没有尖酸刻薄的人
所以谢谢那些陪我们走过一段路的人吧！
感谢在人生中某个时空与我相遇的你们！
未来还是很希望有你们的陪伴！

从另一个角度看……

躲避不一定躲得过
面对不一定最难受
孤单不一定不快乐
得到不一定能长久
失去不一定不再有
转身不一定最软弱
别急着说别无选择
别以为世上只有对与错
许多事情的答案不是只有一个
所以我们永远有路可以走
你能找个理由难过
也一定能找到快乐
懂得放心的人，找到轻松
懂得遗忘的人，找到自由
懂得关怀的人，找到朋友

A to Z of a frieNd~

A Friend is one who....

Accepts you as you are
Believes in "you"
Calls you just to say "Hi"
Doesn't give up on you
Envisions the whole of you
Forgives your mistakes
Gives unconditionally
Helps you
Invites you over
Just "be" with you
Keeps you close at heart
Loves you for who you are
Makes a difference in your life
Never judges
Offers support
Picks you up
Quiets your fears
Raises your spirits
Says nice things about you
Tells you the truth when you need to hear it
Understands you
Values you
Walks beside you
X-plain things you don't understand
Yells when you won't listen and
Zaps you back to reality

FrieNdS!!

Your sentiment is your love,
your love is your heart,
your heart is your spouse,
your spouse is your future,
your future is your destiny,
your destiny is your ambition,
your ambition is your aspiration,
your aspiration is your motivation,
your motivation is your believe,
your believe is your peace,
your peace is your target,
your target is heaven,
heaven is like hell without FRIENDS.

Friends are amazing people who accept each other with unconditional love and care. They recognize each other's talents and respect each other's differences. They trust and believe in each other that they've opened up their hearts to share their dreams, thoughts and fears. They laugh together in happiness and share each other's tears. Friends are blessings to treasure forever.

人生唯一的一次

遇到你真的爱的人时
要努力争取和他相伴一生的机会
因为当他离去时，一切都来不及了……

遇到可相信的朋友时
要好好和他相处下去
因为在人的一生中，可遇到知己真的不易

遇到人生中的贵人时
要记得好好感激
因为他是你人生的转折点

遇到曾经爱过的人时
记得微笑向他感激
因为他是让你更懂爱的人

遇到曾经恨过的人时
要微笑向他打招呼
因为他让你更加坚强

遇到曾经背叛你的人时
要跟他好好聊一聊
因为若不是他今天你不会懂这世界

遇到曾经偷偷喜欢的人时
要祝他幸福哟！
因为你喜欢他时，不是希望他幸福快乐

遇到匆匆离开你人生的人时
要谢谢他走过你的人生
因为他是你精彩回忆的一部分

遇到曾经和你有误会的人时
要趁现在解清误会
因为你可能只有这一次机会解释清楚

遇到现在和相伴一生的人
要百分白感谢他爱你
因为你们现在都得到幸福和真爱

人的一生就只有那么一次的机会可以去做这些事……

说话的速度

急事，慢慢地说；
大事，清楚地说；
小事，幽默地说；
没把握的事，谨慎的说；
没发生的事，不要胡说；
做不到的事，别乱说；
伤害人的事，不能说；
讨厌的事，对事不对人的说；
开心的事，看场合说；
伤心的事，不要见人就说；
别人的事，小心地说；
自己的事，听听自己的心怎么说；
现在的事，做了再说；
未来的事，未来再说；
如果对我有不满意的地方，请一定要对我说。

3 tHiNgS~

3 things in life that, once gone, never come back: time, words, opportunity

3 things in life that may never be lost: peace, hope, honesty

3 things in life that are most valuable: love, self-confidence, friends

3 things in life that are never certain: dreams, success, fortune

3 things that make a man/woman: hardwork, sincerity, commitment

3 things in life that can destroy a man/woman: alcohol, pride, anger

3 things in life that, once lost, hard to build-up: respect, trust, friends

3 things in life that never fail: true love, determination, belief

因为是朋友

你伤心时，我愿意安静地陪着你～
你开心时，我愿意不顾形象的陪你一起大笑～
你无聊时，我愿意在旁边对你说冷笑话打发时间～
你肚子饿时，你愿意跟你一起去麦当劳啃薯条～

因为你是我朋友
所以这些事情都是理所当然的～
因为你是我朋友
所以你不需要客气的过分～
因为你是我朋友
所以你快乐我就快乐～
因为你是我朋友
所以花多少时间在一起玩都是值得的～

朋友就是当你抱头痛哭的时候扶着你肩膀的那个人
朋友就是当你面对人生挫折时一直紧握你的那双手
朋友就是喜欢你，也了解你的人

在满天星光那晚 因为倒影 －＞ －＞ －＞
星星都进到杯子里来了。。。
哪天，一起喝茶吧！用星星泡。。。

一个人的早餐只是一个蛋
两个人的早餐就是一顿爱
一个人的拥抱只能抱住风
两个人的拥抱真实得发痛

一个人的快乐多么单薄
两个人的快乐满出了你我
一个人的痛苦苦得没有尽头
两个人的痛苦至少有个人说说

朋友是～～
一辈子的事！！！

Instructions for l-i-f-e

1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
3. Follow the three R's: Respect for self, Respect for others and Responsibility for all your actions.
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
8. Spend some time alone everyday.
9. Open arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
11. Live a good, honorable life. then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. don't bring up the past.
14. Share your knowledge.it's a way to achieve immortality.
15. Be gentle with the earth.
16. Once a year, go some place you've never been before.
17. Remember that the best relationship is one which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

Tomorrow will be too late...

"If you're mad with someone, and nobody's there to fix the situation... You fix it. Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend. And if u don't, tomorrow can be too late."

"If you're in love with somebody, but that person doesn't know... tell her/him. Maybe today, that person is also in love with you. And if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late."

"If you still love a person that you think has forgotten you... tell her/him. Maybe that person has always loved you. And if you don't tell her/him today , tomorrow can be too late."

"If you need a hug of a friend... ask her/him for it. Maybe they need it more than you do. And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late."

"If you really have friends who you appreciate... tell them. Maybe they appreciate you as well. That if you don't and they leave or go far away today, tomorrow can be too late."

"If you love your parents, and never had the chance to show them... do it. Maybe you have them there to show them how you feel. That if you don't and they leave today, and then tomorrow can be too late."

喜欢与不喜欢

有人问：“你为什么喜欢一个人？”

我只能够说出为什么不喜欢一个人，却说不出为什么喜欢一个人。

喜欢一个人，是一种感觉。
不喜欢一个人，却是事实。

事实容易解释，感觉却难以言喻。

爱情是忽然有一个人，我们觉得一见如故，很想靠近它，我们的内分泌忽然起了翻天覆地的变化，很想拥抱他/她。以后，无论快乐或哀愁，我们也想不起当初为什么爱他/她。

只有当我们不爱一个人时，才会找出不爱他/她的原因，因为我们开始挑剔。任何一个人，只要你去挑剔，一定找得出缺点。越去挑剔，缺点越多，我们便可以说出为什么不喜欢他/她。

我们想买一件衣服时，即时发现它有小小瑕疵，埋怨几句，也肯迁就，因为只有这一间，而且我们太喜欢它了，瑕不掩瑜嘛！假使我们根本不想买那件衣服，它的小小瑕疵便是致命伤。我们更会女里的找出其他缺点，譬如实料不够挺，颜色太鲜艳，向售货员证实，我们不是随便来逛逛的，我有认真考虑过的呀！

分手可以有很多原因，结合却只有一个原因，原因就是：不需要原因！

找一个“懂”你的人

要找到真爱，便要找一个懂你的人。
这个人也许并不是十全十美，但因为他懂你；
你就认为他是十全十美的，就是这么一个“懂”字。

懂是什么？
当你遇到挫折时，他不说一句损你尊严的话；
当你意气用事时，他决不迁就，而会娓娓解说事理给你听；
当你心情不好时，他决不和你一般见事，而大吵大闹；
当你远隔千里，难得见面时，他也深信你；
当你愉快时，他也愉快而且会告诉你；
当你烦恼时，他也烦恼但不会轻易告诉你。

“懂”，是需要多少的了解，多少的体谅，多少爱心。
要找一个懂你的人，也许很难，但要有信心。
找一个懂你的人，也期许自己做一个懂他的人。

聪明的人，喜欢猜心；虽然每次都猜对了，却失去了自己的心；
傻气的人，喜欢给心；虽然每次都被笑了，却得到了别人的心。

有人……

有人记得你
有人相信你
有人信任你

有人想保护你
有人以你为荣
有人在想着你
有人在关心你
有人在想念你

有人想拥你入怀
有人想要接近你
有人想和你说话
有人想要拥抱你
有人想握你的手
有人希望你快乐

有人愿意为了你做任何事
有人很高兴你是他的朋友
有人整俨2812；不著地想念你
有人希望你就在他们身边

有人想告诉你他有多在乎你
有人希望你不要陷入困境中
有人感谢你曾经提供的帮助
有人希望你能发现他的存在
有人因你的成功而为你喝彩

有时候你一定忘记了
其实一直有人在关心你

幸福有三种……
1 亲情
2 友情
3 爱情

希望你把这三个幸福送给所有你在乎的珍惜的人。

Simple Rules to be HAPPY =)

No one can go back and make a brand new start.
Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain,
but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Disappointments are like road humps,
they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards.
Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on!

When you feel down because you didn't get what you want,
just sit tight and be happy,
because God has thought of something better to give you.

When something happens to you, good or bad,
consider what it means.
There's a purpose to life's events,
to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

You can't make someone love you,
all you can do is be someone who can be loved,
the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love,
than to lost the one you love because of pride.
We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love,
when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

Never abandon an old friend.
You will never find one who can take his place.
Friendship is like wine,
it gets beter as it grows older.

Poem

I got your back
You got mine,
I'll help you out
Anytime.

To see you hurt
To see you cry,
Makes me weep
And wanna die.

And if you agree
To never fight,
It wouldn't matter
Who's wrong or right.

If a broken heart
Needs a mend,
I'll be right there
To the end.

If your cheeks are wet
From drops of tears,
Don't you worry,
Let go of your fears.

Hand in hand
Love is sent,
We'll be friends
Till the end.

5 simple rules to be HAPPY

1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

Romantic Countries

These are the names of the some romantic countries in the world.

H.O.L.L.A.N.D Hope Our Love Lasts And Never Dies.
I.T.A.L.Y. I Trust And Love You.
L.I.B.Y.A. Love Is Beautiful; You Also.
F.R.A.N.C.E. Friendships Remain And Never Can End.
C.H.I.N.A. Come Here.. I Need Affection.
B.U.R.M.A. Between Us, Remember Me Always.
N.E.P.A.L. Never Ever Part As Lovers.
I.N.D.I.A. I Nearly Died In Adoration.
K.E.N.Y.A Keep Everything Nice, Yet Arousing.
C.A.N.A.D.A. Cute And Naughty Action that Developed into Attraction
K.O.R.E.A. Keep Optimistic Regardless of Every Adversity.
E.G.Y.P.T. Everything's Great, You Pretty Thing!
M.A.N.I.L.A. May All Nights Inspire Love Always.
P.E.R.U. Phorget (Forget) Everyone... Remember Us.
T.H.A.I.L.A.N.D. Totally Happy. Always In Love And Never Dull.

Bits

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have.
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing that you can't have them.
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be frateful.
10. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
11. There is always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
14. For one human being to love another: that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks. The ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.

Love is...

...getting passionate about someone.
...speaking her language.
...being understanding, not demanding.
...giving him another chance.
...wishing the music would never stop.
...wanting to look beautiful for him.
...dieting with her to make it easier for her.
...scratching her back before she falls asleep.
...showing your emotions.
...starting out with nothing but love.

A friend is...

• a tissue when you can't stop crying
• a shoulder when you feel like dying
• always listens when you have something to say
• a week when you just need a day
• a crutch when you have a broken heart
• some glue when everything falls apart
• a sun when the rain just won't stop
• your mom when you run into a cop
• phone call when you can't leave your home
• hand when you feel all alone
• wing if you want to fly
• understands without knowing why
• an ear for a secret to tell
• an aspirin when you feel unwell
• a love that can never let go

感情真得很微妙

当那个人喜欢你的时候，你不觉得自己喜欢他。
当他放弃的时候，你却发现自己已经喜欢了他。
这种遗憾也不算不大吧？

人就是这样。被人喜欢的时候，我们是多么的自恃？
当他大献殷勤的时候，我们无动于衷，也许还骄傲地觉得对方不是太配得起自己。
他尽管喜欢我吧，我可不是那么容易追求的。

当对方暗示和探听的时候，我们也假装不在乎。
我是有很多人喜欢的。爱上我的话，你也许要受折磨。

当对方对我们忠心耿耿的时候，我们认为那是理所当然的。
我的条件这样好，他还能爱上别人吗？

当他积极的时候，我往往不置可否。
我真的喜欢他吗？也许，我可以遇到更好的。他有很多缺点。

然而，当他变得消极，当他好像不再喜欢我，我却着急了。
他是不是以为我不会喜欢他呢？
我完全没有这个意思。我只是不想一切来得太快。

我唯有放下一点面子，向他暗示，我也是喜欢他的。
然而，他忽然变得很冷淡了。
这个时候有什么办法挽救？
对不起，已经没办法了。

有些话，是收不会的。有些爱，是不能儿戏的。
喜欢，就伸出手让对方知道。
感情，就是因为我们给了太多的理由跟注解，
所以我们就照着别人所下的定义走着。

我不喜欢太黏的生活，但是一旦我爱上了他的时候，
又不时地希望与他朝夕相处。那我到底做得对不对？

有时候，很多事情无需用对或错来概全。
尤其在完全没有公式的爱情世界中，
喜欢就是喜欢，不喜欢就是不喜欢。
再怎样的牺牲跟勉强都是得不到自己所要的。

茫茫人海中，你能找到几个跟你是契合的呢？
个性，相貌，生活，谈吐……
我们都不时地在每一次的见面中，
为着自己的幸福在打量着别人？

呵~好笑的是，对方也如此地对待自己。
100分……100分的人到底跑到哪里去了？
我们都一直找得自己的100分对象，
那我又有几分可以配得上人家？

在无欲无求的生活中，或许就能遇上了你的另一半。

可能他不是100分，可能他不能陪你走到尽头，
但是在这段岁月中，也就是你找到自己的。