Friday, August 31, 2007

照顾自己,朋友

你很“喜欢”自己……
可是,却好像不怎么“爱”你自己

该吃饭的时候
你总是忘记

该睡觉的时候
你总是熬夜写日记

雨天出门
你懒得带伞

寒风来袭
你又懒得加外衣

医生说要常常运动
你却定时定量补给咖啡因
你简直是在折磨你自己的身体

你说你很“喜欢”自己
可是,却好像不知道怎么好好地对自己

好好吃饭……
好好休息……
好好工作……
好好读书……
好好穿衣……
这就是好好对自己

爱……
有时候其实没什么大道理
也不过就是从吃饭穿衣这种日常琐事做起
我关心你,希望你也好好的保重自己

祝福你,我的朋友~

相遇就像是随机抽样

人与人的相遇就像是一个随机抽样
在不同的时间空间之中,彼此相遇……
有时候,你非常喜欢一个人,但是你知道
你们根本不能在一起……
爱你的人,你不爱……你不爱的人,却是那样的爱你
这复杂的习题却又如此的跟着我们
解不开也算不清
人家说在对的时间爱一个人,你是幸福的
在错的空间遇到一个人,你是痛苦的
有些人你就是有一种一见如故的感受
有些人你怎样就是说不上几句话
像是一部公车……大家在这一站上车
又在另一站下车,事事总是充满变数与未知……
曾经感情很好的朋友
即使感觉还在
可是大家都有自己的事情而疏离
所以大家要珍惜每次都偶然邂逅
因为你根本不知道
错过了这次
你跟他会在哪个空间相遇
也许这是你们唯一一次的相遇

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Meaning of kisses

The constitution of Love code:
If you love someone, show them and say so!

Statement:
If a kiss is the language of love, then we have a lot to talk about!

Methods of love:

Kiss on the ear - I'm horny
Kiss on the cheek - We're friends
Kiss on the hand - I adore you
Kiss on the shoulder - I want you
Kiss on the lips - I love you
Holding hands - We can learn to love each other
A wink - Let's get it on
Slap on the butt - Watch out
Playing with the ear - I can't live without you
Arms around the waist - I love you too much to let go
Pulling hair on head - Tell me you love me
Looking into each other's eyes - Let's get romantic
Holding on tight - Don't let go

Advice:
If you are kissing someone, close your eyes. It's not nice to stare!

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Show your CARE TODAY!

To realize the value of ONE YEAR,
想知道“一整年”的价值

ask the student who has failed a class.
就去问被当过的学生

To realize the value of ONE MONTH,
想知道“一个月”的价值

ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.
就去问曾经早产的母亲

To realize the value of ONE WEEK,
想知道“一礼拜”的价值

ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.
就去问周报的编辑

To realize the value of ONE HOUR,
想知道“一小时”的价值

ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.
就去问在等待见面的情侣

To realize the value of ONE MINUTE,
想知道“一分钟”的价值

ask a person who missed the train.
就去问刚错过火车的人

To realize the value of ONE SECOND,
想知道“一秒钟”的价值

ask a person who just avoided an accident.
就去问刚闪过一场车祸的人

To realize the value of ONE MLLISECOND,
想知道“百分之一秒”的价值

ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics.
就去问奥运的银牌得主

Treasure every moment that you have!
珍惜你所拥有的每一刻时间

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery.
昨日已成历史,而明日仍是个谜

Today is a gift
今天是珍贵的礼物

that's why it's called the present!
那时它为何被称作“当下”的原因

Show your friends how much you care!
让你的朋友知道你有多在乎他们!

真正的VS普通

一个普通的朋友从未看过你哭泣。
一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的眼泪湿尽。

一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏。
一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯录上。

一个普通的朋友会带瓶葡萄酒参加你的派对。
一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备并且为了帮你打扫而晚点走。

一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打来。
一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打来。

一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰。
一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰。

一个普通的朋友对你的罗曼史感到好奇。
一个真正的朋友可以威胁你说出来。

一个普通的朋友在拜访时,像一个客人一样。
一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西。

一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束。
一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊。

一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他。
一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁!

*一个球是一个圈子,没有起始,也没有结束。
它把我们结合在一起,像一圈子的朋友。
但是留给你去看的秘密宝藏就是你给予我的珍贵友谊。
今天我把友谊的球传送给你。
把它传给任何一位你的朋友……*

Sunday, August 12, 2007

青蛙的故事

从前,有一群青蛙组织了一场攀爬比赛。
比赛的终点是:一个非常高的铁塔的塔顶。
一大群青蛙围着铁塔看比赛,给它们加油。
比赛开始了……

老实说:群蛙中没有谁相信这些小小的青蛙回到着塔顶,他们都在议论:“这太难了!!它们肯定到不了塔顶!” “他们绝不可能成功的,塔太高了!”

听到这些,一只接一只的青蛙开始泄气了,除了那些情绪高涨的几只还在往上爬。
群蛙继续喊着:“这太难了!!没有谁能爬上顶的!”

越来越多的青蛙累坏了,退出了比赛。但,有一只却还在越爬越高,一点没有放弃的意思。
最后,其他所有的青蛙都退出了比赛,除了那一只它费了很大的劲,终于成为唯一一只到这塔顶的胜利者。

很自然,其他所有的青蛙都想知道它是怎么成功的。
有一只青蛙跑上前去问那只胜利者,它哪来那么大的力气跑完全程?

它发现:这只青蛙是个聋子!

这个故事的寓意:永远不要听信那些习惯消极悲观看问题的人,因为他们只会粉碎你内心最美好的梦想与希望!

总是记住你听到的充满力量的话语,因为所有你听到的或读到的话语都会影响你的行为。

所以,总是要保持:积极,乐观!

而且,最重要的是:当有人告诉你你的梦想不可能成真时,你要变成“聋子”,对此充耳不闻!

要总是想着:我一定能做到!

The story of the FouR CandLes

The four candles blowed slowly.

The ambiance was so soft that you could hear them talking.

The first one said, "I am Peace! However, nobody can keep me lit. I believe I will go out." Its flame diminished rapidly and went out completely.

The second one said, "I am Faith! Most of all, I am no longer indispensable, so it doesn't make any sense that I stay lit any longer." When it finished talking, a breeze blew on it softly, putting it out.

Sadly, the third candle spoke in its turn, "I am Love! I haven't gotten the strength to stay lit. People put me aside and don't understand my importance. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them." And waiting no longer it went out.

Suddenly, a child entered the room and saw three candles not burning. "Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit till the end." Saying this, the child began to cry.

Then the fourth candle said, "Don't be afraid, while I am still burning we can re-light the other candles, for I am Hope!"

With shining eyes, the child took the candle of Hope and lit the other candles.

The flame of Hope should never go out from your life...and that each of us can mantain Hope, Faith, Peace and Love!!!

The Lovers of the Heart

[note: This whole thing must be written by a guy =P]

In order to form a more perfect kiss, enable the mighty hug to promote to whom we please but one kiss.

Article 1:
Statement of Love: The Kiss

1. Kiss on the hand: I adore you
2. Kiss on the cheek: I just want to be friends
3. Kiss on the neck: I want you
4. Kiss on the lips: I love you
5. Kiss on the ears: I am just playing
6. Kiss anywhere else: let's not get carried away
7. Look in your eyes: kiss me
8. Playing with your hair: I can't live without you
9. Hand on your waist: I love you too much to let you go

Article 2:
The Three Steps

1. Girls: If any guy gets fresh with you, slap him.
2. Guys: If any girl slaps you, her intentions are still good.
3. Guys & Girls: Close your eyes when kissing, it is rude to stare!

Article 3:
The Commandments

1. Thou shall not squeeze too hard.
2. Thou shall not ask for a kiss, but take one.
3. Thou shall kiss at every oppotunity.

*Remember*

A peach is a peach
A plum is a plum
A kiss isn't a kiss
Without some tongue.
So open up your mouth
close your eyes,
and give your tongue some exercise!!

A few reasons why guys like girls:

1. They will always smell good even it is just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. The ease in which they fit into our arms
5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worth while
8. Because they are always warm even when it is minus 30 outside
9. The way they look good no matter what they wear
10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she's the most beautiful thing on this earth
11. How cute they are when they argue
12. The way her hand always finds yours
13. The way they smile
14. The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just ahd a big fight
15. The way she says 'let's not fight anymore' even though you know that an hour later...
16. The way they kiss when you do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when you say 'I love you'
18. Actually... just the way they kiss you
19. The way they fall into your arms when they cry
20. The way they apologize for crying over something silly
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22. The way the apologize when it does hurt
23. The way they say 'I miss you'
24. The way you miss them
25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn't hurt her anymore...

Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them...it matters not.
Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you.
When you lok them in the eyes, travelling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart.
We love them for a million reasons, no paper would do it justice.
It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart.
A feeling.
Only felt.

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

失去一个朋友只要一秒钟

主动表示善意,真的不表示懦弱……
很多好朋友会为一句话而伤了和气,损及友谊,
甚至不讲话不往来。
要交一个朋友,需要很长时间的培养,
但是要失去一个朋友只要一秒钟。
当然有人会说:“少他一个也不会死!”
是不会死,而且离死太远。
只是,那样的失去,却是生命中很大的遗憾。

一位长者曾很深的表示:“当一个人的生命接近结束时,他们回视自己这一生的时候,印象最深的,不是自己做了什么大的事业,有什么好的名声,而是自己曾经拥有的爱有多少。”

自己爱过谁,谁又爱过自己,
那才是生命中最真实,有意义的。
生命中,许多原本属于我们的幸福、完美,
常常因我们的轻忽而恣意挥霍,不懂得珍惜,
有常常因我们的自负面子
和不必要的坚持而使得良机错失,
姻缘折散,朋友反目…

想想,这中间真正的受害人是谁呢?
若只是为了放不下矜持,
为争一口莫名所以气,而死拗着,
那不是酷,不是有种,也不是坚强,而只是顽固。
与挚爱相比,那些小小的自我,实在太微不足道了!

真的!
如果你爱你的朋友,尊重他们,
何妨先表示关怀,何妨先示好,
如果你心中长藏着一些感谢,
有些话要告诉某一个人,
千万别一直闷着,
找个时间告诉那个人吧!

在你有生之年好好感受一下,爱的温暖…
那感觉真好…

To all my dear friends…
谢谢你们一直陪伴着我
只想告诉你们~!有你们真好~~!

The TruTh about HUGS!

There's no such thing as a bad hug, only good ones and great ones!

Hugs are nonfattening and they don't cause cancer or cavities...

Hugs are all natural with no preservaties, artificial ingredients or pesticide residue...

Hugs are cholesterol-free, naturally sweet, 100% wholesome and they are a completely renewable resource...

Hugs are easy to care for, they don't require batteries, tune-ups or X-rays...

Hugs are non taxable, fully returnable and energy efficient...

Hugs are safe in all kinds of weather...

In fact, hugs are especially good for cold and rainy days and...

exceptionally effective in treating problems like bad dreams or Monday blues...

Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone you could hug today, because when you give one, you get one right back your way!

Monday, August 6, 2007

TruE FriEnDshIp

Once in a life time
you find a friend
who touches not only your heart
but also your soul

Once in a lifetime
you discover someone
who stands beside you,
not over you

Once in a lifetime
if you are lucky
you find someone
as I have foudn you.

Very special people
we can be ourselves with,
talk with, laugh with,
hope with and believe with...

我的朋友

我的朋友
在我面前说我坏话
在我背后说我好话
在我发牢骚是不说话

我的朋友
为了泛统或泛独跟我争得面红耳赤翻桌子
一星期后打电话问我要不要去他家包饺子

我的朋友
一年一次越洋电话告诉我他好开心
总是当他正烂醉在酒吧听靡靡之音

我的朋友
从不记得回我贺年卡
好像他不记得五十万
不是他欠我是我欠他

我的朋友
冲出门慌忙拦住我问:do you have a minute?
端出一盘刚出炉的cookie说:taste it, quick!

我的朋友
有的陪我长大有的教我长大
共同志趣是喜欢成长不想发达

我的朋友
从小朋友便老朋友
说:希望我们两家的小朋友
将来也成为像我们这样的朋友

朋友是~一辈子的事~

一个人的早餐只是一个蛋
两个人的早餐就是一顿爱
一个人的拥抱只能抱住风
两个人的拥抱真实得发痛
一个人的快乐多么单薄
两个人的快乐满出了你我
一个人的痛苦苦得没有尽头
两个人的痛苦至少有个人说说

我觉得朋友是
~一辈子的事~
你们都是我最重要的朋友

Sunday, August 5, 2007

GOD...always answers prayer

When the idea is not right, God says, "No."
No - when the idea is not the best,
No - when the idea is absolutely wrong,
No - when though it may help you, it could create problems for someone else.

When the time is not right, God says, "Slow."
What a catastrophe it would be if God answered every prayer at the snap of your finges.
Do you know what would happen? God would become your servant, not your master.
Suddenly, God would be working for you instead of you working for God.

Remember: God's delays are not God's denials. God's timing is perfect. Patience is what we need in prayer.

When you are not right, God says, "Grow."
The selfish person has to grow in unselfishness.
The cautious person must grow courage.
The timid person must grow in confidence.
The dominating person must grow insensitivity.
The critical person must grow in tolerance.
The negative person must grow in positive attitudes.
The pleasure-seeking person must grow in compassion for suffering people.

When everything is all right, God says, "Yes."
Then miracles happen:
A hopeless alcoholic is set free!
A drug addict finds release!
A doubter becomes as a child in his belief.
Diseased tissue responds to treatment, and healing begins.
The door to your dream suddenly swings open and there stands God saying, "Go!"

- Dr. Robert Schuller

Call ME...

If one day you feel like crying...
Call me.
I don't promise you that...
I will make you laugh
But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away -
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to stop,
But I can run with you.

If one day you don't want to listen to anybody...
Call me and...
I promise to be very quiet.

But...
If one day you call and there is no answer...

Come fast to see me...
Perhaps I need you.

Be Optimistic! ^_^

Laugh often.

Indulge in the things you truly love.

…even when it seems hopeless.

There is always someone who loves you more than you know.

It will get better

Give it your all

Be weird whenever you have the chance

Always be up for surprises.

Love someone with all of your heart.

Hold onto good friends, they are few and far between!

Always try to see the glass half full.

生命无价

一个喷嚏,不需要喷得好元,也可以传播恶毒细菌。

一份工作,不需要薪金优厚,也可以做到没命。

一个男人,不需要好帅,也有权万尝不同枕边人。

一个女人,不需要天使样貌魔鬼身材,也可以淫乱不堪。

一个吻,不需要纠缠交葛轻轻柔柔的,也可以很深情。

一份关心,不需要长篇大论短短的一句,也可以很温暖。

一个知己,不需要天天见面心深联系,也可以很长久。

一对夫妻,不需要每天浪漫手牵手,也可以感受到爱。

这个地球不会因你失去了一份工,失去了一举大生意,社区了贵重钱财,失去了自己爱的人,失去了爱自己的人,失去了一段感情,失去了一些未开始的感情,失去了一丝盼望……而停留。

世事无常,顺逆难料,唯独是生命无价!