Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Good morning

Good morning, I'm your angel;
Let's start this brand new day!

I'll add a bit of heaven,
to help you on your way.

I'll help you open sleepy eyes,
enable you to see,
sunshine-jewels in the morning light,
so priceless, yet they're free.

I'll cause the morning birds to sing,
and then I'll take their songs,
and place them all into your heart...
to cheer you all day long.

I'll help you find your lost car keys,
the work that you brought home...
and as you're walking out of the door,
you won't go alone.

For I'll be right beside you...
breathe deep, you'll feel me here.

I'm that invigorating tingle,
held in the morning air.

As you go about your day,
Please know that this is true...
There's nothing you can't overcome,
For I'll be there with you.

Sunday, September 28, 2008

6 core virtues to positive psychology

1. Wisdom

2. Love

3. Courage

4. Justice

5. Temperance

6. Spirituality

7 Deadly Sins

1. Wealth without work

2. Pleasure without conscience

3. Knowledge without character

4. Commerce without morale (ethics)

5. Science without humanity

6. Religion without sacrifice

7. Politics without principle

- Steven Covey

7 Habits of Highly effective people

1. Be proactive.

2. Begin with the end in mind.

3. Put first things first.

4. Think win-win.

5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood.

6. Synergy.

7. Sharpen the saw.

- Steven Covey

Saturday, September 27, 2008

朋友就是……

一个人可以毫无道理跟你做一辈子亲戚,但一个人不会毫无道理跟你做一辈子朋友。

我会想起,与你们认识的种种……

也会想起,发生过的点点滴滴……

直到我们都年老时,是否会像现在这样……坐在电脑前互诉心声?

不管如何……希望我们永远是真诚相对的朋友(知己)……


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朋友,是你高兴时想跟他分享的;
朋友,是你不高兴时可以给你发脾气的;
朋友,也是在你没钱开饭时打救你的;
朋友,是你闷得发荒时可以和你一起发荒的;
朋友,会甘愿给你功课抄,跟你一同出猫一同被人罚的;
朋友,也是你买手信时,想买一份打的给他的;
朋友,也是你看见他上线时,想给他“喔噢!”

朋友就是无形中伴你走过风雨,永远支持你的力量
朋友就是一种无法言喻的美好感觉
朋友就是在别人面前永远护着你的那个人
朋友就是即使是一点点小感动,一点小事情都想一起分享
朋友就是当你抱头痛哭的时候,扶着你肩膀的那个人
朋友就是当你面对人生挫折时,一直紧握你那双手

你能够看到他是你与他的缘分
你能够和你身边的人做朋友也是你与他的缘分
纵使你不知道这颗流星会何时消失
但若你好好珍惜看到这流星的每一刻
那就算流星走了你也不会后悔
让大家好好珍惜身边的每一个人
珍惜这段友谊!

珍惜现在

忙的时候,想要休息;

渡假的时候,想到未来。

穷的时候,渴望富有;

生活安逸了,怕幸福不能长久。

该决定的时候,担心结果不如预期;

看明白了,后悔当初没有下定决心。

不属于自己的,常常心存欲望;

握在手里了,又怀念未拥有的轻松。

生活若不是现在,那是何时?

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Share your strength

Don't shy away from challenges...facing them is the only way you can improve.

Look inside for your strength, then share that strength with others.

Always maintain your sense of humour, share it with others when things get too intense.

Make the play first, then decide if it was possible.

Admit your mistakes. It shows character and inner strength.

Remember, loyalty is a two-way street.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Friends..

God made the world with a heart full of love,

Then He looked down from Heaven above.

And saw that we all need a helping hand.

Someone to share with, who'll understand,

He made speacial people to see us through

The glad times and the sad times, too;

A person on whom we can always depend,

Someone we can call a friend.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Quotes quotes quotes

Someone's boring me. I think it's me. - Dylan Thomas

I shut my eyes in order to see. - Paul Gauguin (1848-1903)

There's no point in being grown up if you can't be childish sometimes. - Doctor Who

A ship in harbour is safe, but that is not what ships are built for. - William Shedd

Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings. - Samuel Johnson

Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute. - Josh Billings

You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her. - Anon

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as if everything is. - Albert Einstein

I love acting. It is so much more real than life. - Oscar Wilde (1854-1900)

The toughest part of getting to the top of the ladder, is getting through the crowd at the bottom.

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear.

Deeds, not words shall speak me - John Fletcher

A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is braver five minutes longer. - Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882)

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

More friendship quotes

Friendship is a single soul living in two bodies. - Aristotle

True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable. - Dyan Tyson Gentry

The secret to friendship is being a good listener.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument. A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

I cannot concentrate all my friendship on any single one of my friends because no one is complete enough in himself. - Anais Nin

Friendship is the union of spirits, a marriage of hearts, and the bond thereof virtue. - William Penn's Fruits of Solitude

That friendship will not continue to the end which is begun for an end. - Francis Quareles

The friendship between me and you
I will not compare to a chain;
for that rains might rust,
or the falling tree might break. - William Penn's Treaty with the Indians

Friendship often ends in love, but love in friendship - never. - Charles Caleb Colton

True friendship is never serene. - Marquise de Sevigne

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Rainbow

Rainbows would never be rainbows

If sunshine had never met rain

No one would ever need comfort

If there was no sadness and pain

But life holds both sunshine and showers

The days aren't all bright and fair

So look through the showers for the rainbows

You'll always find hope shining there

That is Friendship

Far away but always near,
I hold your relationship very clear...
Ever together but never apart...
You'll always be in my heart as my friend.

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The thread asked the candle,
why you dissolve yourself when I burn.
The candle said, when those who are in my heart suffer,
I am bound to shed tears....
That is Friendship

Friday, September 12, 2008

把握

一頓歷時89分鐘, 價值274元的晚餐。一對男女戀人步出餐廳。

男的吃這頓飯吃得好辛苦, 因他85分鐘都用了來想著公司的那份計劃書該怎樣做, 幸好女的一點也不發覺他心不在焉。

女的對男的說:「現在不算太晚, 你不用送我了, 我自己回家吧。」明天就要交計劃書的男友,'立刻答:「好呀! 那你小心點了, 回家致電給我吧。再見。」

男的飛快回家, 去埋首他的工作, 他不停的做直致電話響起。他看看鐘原來已經半夜三時許, 是誰這麼夜來電'他接過電話, 原來是他的未來外母:「我女兒現在還沒回家,你不是和她去了吃飯嗎? 她怎樣了, 我好怕......」

男的才記起女的說回到家後會致電他報平安, 但現在已經夜半二、三時她為什麼還不回家。男的心亂如麻, 最後還是報警求助。

去到警局, 警員問他: [ 她失蹤時的衣著是...」
男的:「這...她......想不起來...」
警員:「不打緊,你先放鬆一下, 那衣服的顏色總會記得吧..藍色? 紅色?」
男的:「我...我只想著份計劃書, 吃飯也低下頭...我不曾看過她的...」
警員:「她的髮型呢? 長髮? 短髮?」
男的:「我跟她一起很多年了...我所以...怎麼她的東西我一點也想不起...」
警員:「你說她是你女友, 你們最近很少見面嗎? 怎會連髮型也不知道,那她有帶首飾, 手袋嗎?」
男的也是無言以對。

離開警局, 男的覺得很驚訝,驚訝他對女友的'不上心'。

多年來他已把愛情的感覺當成一種習慣, 就連對他的女友也'習以為常', 已經不把她放在心上了。

已過了三天, 女的還是音訊全無, 這三天男的除了擔心女友的安危, 就是不停的想:「她的髮型、她的衣著, 我怎會不知道的! 我一定要記起來!」

這夜, 男的經過一條幽黑、灰暗的長街, 竟看見女的就站在長街的盡頭。

男的高興得跑向她,想緊緊的擁抱她。但走到女友的面前他就改變了主意, 他雙手按著女友的肩膊,說:「等一下,先不要動。讓我看清楚你, 你的頭髮、你的衣著, 我要好好的記著。回想起那晚, 其實是你發現我還有工作在身, 想我早點回家工作而叫我不用送你的。一直以來只有你還關心我的感受, 而我卻不理會你。但不要緊,我已知道應怎樣去愛你、珍惜你。相信我, 你的一切一切今後都會常在我心中的。」

女的:「你終於都懂得理會我的感受, 懂得珍惜我了...可惜已經太遲......」
男的忽然醒過來, 原來剛才的是一場夢。
夢醒後男的努力去想, 夢中女友的衣著、髮型, 但還是記不起來.....

隔天, 男的終於再見到他的女友, 就是在警員帶他到殮房認屍的時候......望著躺在停屍間的女友, 男的哭著說:「我終於知道你的髮型, 衣著, 我現在才真正的看真你。我會記著的, 永遠都會記著的... 我剛想到要珍惜你...你醒醒呀...不要就這樣離開我好嗎......」

男的剛學會珍惜, 卻已後悔莫及。現在他除了哭泣, 就什麼都做不了......

也許你常發現我一直凝望著你! 你問我看什麼呢? 我笑笑的回答....沒什麼, 只是想將你的一切記在心裏, 在見不到你時細細回味..........

珍惜......

★ 好好珍惜 ★

看到一個深愛著你的人為你而改變
因為愛你,他收起他的頑固脾氣
因為愛你,他對別人都以感謝的心
因為愛你,他把你的興趣也變成是他的興趣
喜歡一個人是沒有原因的
他無悔的付出,都認為是值得的,只要能和相愛的人在一起...
其實我們的身邊都有一些這樣的人,只是我們還沒發現...
最懂你的人,總是會一直的在你身邊守護你,不讓你有一絲的委屈...
真正愛你的人,不會說許多愛你的話卻會做許多愛你的事...
如果你身邊有這樣的人的話,請你好好珍惜...........

★ 給在戀愛中及想戀愛的男女 ★

女生的心很脆弱~~~
常因為你的小體貼而感動,如果你一直對我好 我可能就會喜歡你
女生的感情很豐富~~~
喜歡你的我,會毫不保留的付出,天真的認為有天你就會懂女生的心很容易受傷~~~
所以我不輕易說出口~~~假如期望落空了,傷心難過很不好受
女生的心很倔強 ~~~
總希望你先說,如果你也猶豫不決...
或許我們就這樣錯過...再來後悔為何當初不說......

男生的心很脆弱~~~
常常因為妳的小動作而心碎,如果妳一直若即若離,我怎麼敢喜歡妳
男生的心思很細密~~~
喜歡妳的我,會不計一切的付出,單純的以為你會懂得珍惜
男生的愛很不容易說出口~~~
因為一旦說出口,或許再也沒有或許了,彼此悲傷見面真的很不好受
男生的心很懦弱~~~
總怕傷心而緊閉雙唇,或許一打開雙唇盡吐心語後
就會後悔當初為何不乖乖沉靜在那片刻的幸福中.....

Dog thoughts

The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail instead of his tongue. - Anonymous

There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face. - Ben Williams

A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself. - Josh Billings

The average dog is a nicer person than the average person. - Andy Rooney

Dogs love their friends and bite their enemies, quite unlike people. - Anonymous

Anybody who doesn't know what soap tastes like never washed a dog. - Franklin P. Jones

If your dog is fat, you aren't getting enough exercise. - Unknown

My dog is worried about the economy because the Alpo is up to $3 a can. That's almost $21 in dog money. - Joe Weinstein

Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea. - Robert A. Heinlein

If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the principal difference between a dog and a man. - Mark Twain

Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole. - Roger Caras

If you think dogs can't count, try putting three dog biscuits in your pocket and then give him only two of them. - Phil Pastoret

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Reasons to like a woman

You can feel her care in the form of a sister

You can feel her warmth in the form of a friend

You can feel her passion in the form of a beloved

You can feel her dedication in the form of a wife

You can feel her divinity in the form of a mother

You can feel her blessings in the form of a grandmother

Yet she is so tough too...

Her heart is so tender...

So naughty...

So charming...

So sharing...

So melodious...

She is a woman

She is life

Respect her.

Love your parents

"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before.
The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new."

"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realise that you control your own destiny."

"I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life."

"Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible."

"How pleasant it is for a father to sit at his child's board. It is like an aged man reclining under the shadow of an oak which he has planted."

最真的爱(百合)

那么静静的空气里,依旧散发出不凡的气息!

那么冷冷的氛围里,依旧是在风中生姿摇曳!

那么凄凄的情境里,依旧传达了祝福的心意!

那么危危的悬崖里,依旧绽放着生命的美丽!

即使,早已失去关爱的眼神

即使,早已失去青春的容颜

那纯白的身影,依然挺立

那洁净的心灵,依然如昔

那无价的付出,依然给予

那是爱的祝福,爱的真意……

Friday, September 5, 2008

知道你有多幸运吗?

如果你今天早上醒来时
还算健康,恭喜你,因为有一百万人将活不过一星期。

如果你不曾经理战争的危险、
被监禁的寂寞、
被凌虐的痛苦、
或是饥寒交迫,
恭喜你,你比五亿人还好命。

如果你可以参加宗教活动
而不必担心被骚扰、
逮捕、凌虐、或死亡,
恭喜你,你比15亿人还自由。

如果你的冰箱里有食物、
有衣服穿、还有地方住,
恭喜你,你比全世界70%的人还富有。

如果你在银行有存款、
钱包里有钞票、
还有一些零钱,
恭喜你,你是全世界前10%的有钱人。

如果你的双亲还健在,
而且没有离婚,
你算是幸运儿。

如果你经常抬头带着微笑,
而且心中感谢老天,
你是幸福的,
因为大部分的人可以办到却不这么做。

如果你会握住某人的手、
或给他们一个拥抱、
或是拍拍他们的肩膀,
恭喜你,因为你是具有愈合人们心灵的能力。

如果你可以读到这篇文章,
那是双重幸运:
有人想到你这个朋友,
而且有15一人根本不识字。

你大概从来没想到过
自己是那么幸福吧?!

爱情……

爱的感觉,总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜,
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担,
你终于不再孤单了,至少有一个人想着你、恋着你,
不论做什么事情,
只要能一起,就是好的,
但是慢慢的,随着彼此的认识愈深,
你开始发现了对方的缺点,
于是问题一个接着一个发生,
你开始烦、累,甚至想要逃避,
有人说爱情就像在捡石头,
总想捡到一个适合自己的,
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?
她适合你,那你又适合她吗?
其实,爱情就像磨石子一样,
或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么的满意,
但是记住人是有弹性的,
很多事情是可以改变的,
只要你有心、有勇气,
与其到处去捡未知的石头,
还不如好好的将就?

* 在某个聚餐的场合,有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好,这时候有个中年男人忽然说:“十年前,当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候,她说要吃十只虾,我就剥二十只给她!现在,如果她要我帮她剥虾壳,开玩笑!我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了,还剥虾壳叻!”

听到了吗?明白了吗?
难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱,却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为,婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴,
那么夫妻或是情人之间,
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢?

所以请记住:
有活力的爱情,
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的,
谈恋爱,更是不可以偷懒的喔!

*有一对情侣,相约下班后去用餐、逛街,可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了,当她冒着雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟,她的男朋友很不高兴的说:“你每次都这样,现在我什么心情也没了,我以后再也不会等你了!”刹那间,女孩终于决堤崩溃了,她心里在想:或许,他们再也没有未来了。

*同样的在同一个地点,另一对情侣也面临同样的出境;女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头,她的男朋友说:“我想你一定忙坏了吧!”接着他为女孩抹去脸上的雨水,并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上,此刻,女孩流泪了,但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。

你体会到了吗?
*其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间!

爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时,很多事可能只是在于你心境的转变罢了!
懂了吗?
当有个人爱上你,而你也觉得他不错。
那并不代表你会选择他。
*我们总说:我要找一个你很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。
但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,
你可能无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。

*没错,我们总是认为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是后来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢?
其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣。
但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了,只是你没发现而已呢?
所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧!
他或许已经等你很久喽!

*当你爱一个人的时候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分;剩下两三分又来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过气来,完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

*所以请记住,
喝酒不要超过六分醉,
吃饭不要超过七分饱,
爱一个人不要超过八分

*那天朋友问我:到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢?
我笑着跟他说:其实每个人的爱情观都不一样,说对了叫开导,但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了!

*如果你也正在为爱迷惘,或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示:
爱一个人,要了解,也要开解;
要道歉,也要道谢;
要认错,也要改错;
要体贴,也要体谅;
是接受,而不是忍受;
是宽容,而不是纵容;
是支持,而不是支配;
是慰问,而不是质问;
是倾诉,而不是控诉;
是难忘,而不是遗忘;
是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;
是为对方默默祈求,而不是向对方诸多要求;
可以浪漫,但不要浪费;
可以随时牵手,但不要随便分手。

The Woman

When God created woman He was working late on the 6th day. An angel came by and said, 'Why spend so much time on that one?'

And the Lord answered, 'Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her?
She must be washable, but not made of plastic, have more than 200 moving parts which all must be replaceable and she must function on all kinds of foood, she must be able to embrace several kids at the same time, give a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart and she must do all this with only two hands.'

The angel was impressed.

'Just two hands...impossible! And this is the standard model?!
Too much work for one day...wait until tomorrow and then complete her.'

'I will not,' said the Lord. 'I am so close to complete this creation, which will be the favourite of my heart.
She cures herself when sick and she can work 18 hours a day.'

The angel came nearer and touched the woman.

'But you have made her so soft, Lord.'

'She is soft,' said the Lord, 'But I have also made her strong. You can't imagine what she can endure and overcome.'

'Can she think?' the angel asked.

The Lord answered, 'Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate.'

The angel touched the woman's cheek...

'Lord, it seems this creatioin is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her.'

'She is not leaking...it's a tear,' the Lord corrected the angel.

'What's it for?' asked the angel.

And the Lord said, 'Tears are her way of expressing grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride.'

This made a big impression on the angel, 'Lord, You are genius. You thought of everything. The woman is indeed marvellous!'

Indeed she is!

Woman has strengths that amaze man. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens.
She holds happiness, love and opinions.
She smiles when feeling like screaming.
She sings when she feels like crying, cries when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid.

She fights for what she believes in.
She stands up against injustice.
She doesn't take 'no' for an answer, when she can see a better solution.
She gives herself so her family can thrive.
She takes her friend to the doctor if she is afriad.
Her love is unconditional.

She cries when her kids are victorious.
She is happy when her friends do well.
She is glad when she hears of a birth or a wedding.
Her heart is broken when a next of kin or friend dies.
But she finds the strength to get on with life.
She knows that a kiss and a hug can heal a broken heart.

There is only one thing wrong with her
She forgets what she is worth...