The greatest of all, is...love.

A great love?
It's when you shed tears and still you care for him,
it's when he ignores you and still long for him.
It's when he begins to love another
and yet you still smile and say I'm happy for you.

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Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive,
not how you listen but how you understand,
not what you see but how you feel,
and not how you let go but how you hold on.

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Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one who hurts you the most,
and sometimes the friend who takes you into his arms and cries when you cry turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted.

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God gave you..
two legs to walk
two hands to hold
two ears to hear
two eyes to see

But why did he give you only one heart?
It's because he gave the other one to someone for you to find.

Don't wait 不要等待

Don't wait for the best job, to begin to work.
不要非要等到一份最好的工作，才要开始工作

Don't wait for to be lonely, to recognize the value of a friend.
不要等到寂寞了，才明白朋友的价值和重要

Don't wait to be loved, to love.
不要等被爱了以后，才要去爱

Don't wait for anybody else's pain, to ask for apology...
不要等到别人受伤了，才要乞求原谅

...neither separation to make it up.
也不要等分开了，才要挽回

Don't wait..
不要等待

..because you don't know how long it will take.
因为你不知道等待需要花多少时间

Easy vs DifficulT

Easy is to get a place is someone's address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone's heart.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others.
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes.

Easy is to talk without thinking.
Difficult is to refrain the tongue.

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others.
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness.

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others.
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult to follow

Easy is keep the friendship with words.
Difficult is to keep it with meanings.

懂得珍惜每个陪你走一段路的人

想起旧情人，心里不期然有些唏嘘；
除非你知道由始至终对方也是在欺骗你，
否则每一段逝去的爱情始终有其价值。
人生的路那么长，恰如由闹市走到草原，
由草原走到海滩，由海滩走到沙漠,
在每一个阶段也有人陪你走，免你于孤独，其实还怨什么？

分手当刻固然伤心，但每一个经历过分手的人，
如果想起当天呼天怨地的情景，不尽会笑自己傻：
我现在不是活得好端端的？
如果可以豁达的想想，那一段日子没有他/她的出现，
真不知怎么把空余的时间填允。

有时分手不一定是为了性格不和，感情丢淡或第三者，
当一个人的生命列车要转轨时，
在旁的伴侣未必能并肩而行。
明明恋爱得如火如荼，但为了升学，为了移民，
为了转工而受到时空阻隔，
不能天天见面，渐渐感情不再巩固，而人也在变。
因为要成长，因为要上进而错失的爱情是凄美的。

甚至我会这样想，一个人的生命是路遥遥般漫长，
只要我能够陪他走过十分一的路程已经是一种荣幸。

给懂得去珍惜每个陪你走一段路的人

想想在我们的人生中有多少的人在陪着我们走？

有些只是惊鸿一瞥
有些是点头之交
有些君子之交
有些手帕之交
也有些长长久久
不管是什么样的朋友
都在我们人生的某个时间
某个人生的点
与我们相遇了

不管相遇的时间是短或是长是深或是浅
我们都该珍惜
因为在他们身上让我们学到了不少的东西
即使在当下可能会觉得那个人不可理喻，顽固不灵，尖酸刻薄
但也因为他的这些让我们学会了宽容

甚而因为有这些人才让我们更珍惜那些没有不可理喻，没有顽固不懂，没有尖酸刻薄的人
所以谢谢那些陪我们走过一段路的人吧！
感谢在人生中某个时空与我相遇的你们！
未来还是很希望有你们的陪伴！

从另一个角度看……

躲避不一定躲得过
面对不一定最难受
孤单不一定不快乐
得到不一定能长久
失去不一定不再有
转身不一定最软弱
别急着说别无选择
别以为世上只有对与错
许多事情的答案不是只有一个
所以我们永远有路可以走
你能找个理由难过
也一定能找到快乐
懂得放心的人，找到轻松
懂得遗忘的人，找到自由
懂得关怀的人，找到朋友

A to Z of a frieNd~

A Friend is one who....

Accepts you as you are
Believes in "you"
Calls you just to say "Hi"
Doesn't give up on you
Envisions the whole of you
Forgives your mistakes
Gives unconditionally
Helps you
Invites you over
Just "be" with you
Keeps you close at heart
Loves you for who you are
Makes a difference in your life
Never judges
Offers support
Picks you up
Quiets your fears
Raises your spirits
Says nice things about you
Tells you the truth when you need to hear it
Understands you
Values you
Walks beside you
X-plain things you don't understand
Yells when you won't listen and
Zaps you back to reality

FrieNdS!!

Your sentiment is your love,
your love is your heart,
your heart is your spouse,
your spouse is your future,
your future is your destiny,
your destiny is your ambition,
your ambition is your aspiration,
your aspiration is your motivation,
your motivation is your believe,
your believe is your peace,
your peace is your target,
your target is heaven,
heaven is like hell without FRIENDS.

Friends are amazing people who accept each other with unconditional love and care. They recognize each other's talents and respect each other's differences. They trust and believe in each other that they've opened up their hearts to share their dreams, thoughts and fears. They laugh together in happiness and share each other's tears. Friends are blessings to treasure forever.

人生唯一的一次

遇到你真的爱的人时
要努力争取和他相伴一生的机会
因为当他离去时，一切都来不及了……

遇到可相信的朋友时
要好好和他相处下去
因为在人的一生中，可遇到知己真的不易

遇到人生中的贵人时
要记得好好感激
因为他是你人生的转折点

遇到曾经爱过的人时
记得微笑向他感激
因为他是让你更懂爱的人

遇到曾经恨过的人时
要微笑向他打招呼
因为他让你更加坚强

遇到曾经背叛你的人时
要跟他好好聊一聊
因为若不是他今天你不会懂这世界

遇到曾经偷偷喜欢的人时
要祝他幸福哟！
因为你喜欢他时，不是希望他幸福快乐

遇到匆匆离开你人生的人时
要谢谢他走过你的人生
因为他是你精彩回忆的一部分

遇到曾经和你有误会的人时
要趁现在解清误会
因为你可能只有这一次机会解释清楚

遇到现在和相伴一生的人
要百分白感谢他爱你
因为你们现在都得到幸福和真爱

人的一生就只有那么一次的机会可以去做这些事……

说话的速度

急事，慢慢地说；
大事，清楚地说；
小事，幽默地说；
没把握的事，谨慎的说；
没发生的事，不要胡说；
做不到的事，别乱说；
伤害人的事，不能说；
讨厌的事，对事不对人的说；
开心的事，看场合说；
伤心的事，不要见人就说；
别人的事，小心地说；
自己的事，听听自己的心怎么说；
现在的事，做了再说；
未来的事，未来再说；
如果对我有不满意的地方，请一定要对我说。

3 tHiNgS~

3 things in life that, once gone, never come back: time, words, opportunity

3 things in life that may never be lost: peace, hope, honesty

3 things in life that are most valuable: love, self-confidence, friends

3 things in life that are never certain: dreams, success, fortune

3 things that make a man/woman: hardwork, sincerity, commitment

3 things in life that can destroy a man/woman: alcohol, pride, anger

3 things in life that, once lost, hard to build-up: respect, trust, friends

3 things in life that never fail: true love, determination, belief

因为是朋友

你伤心时，我愿意安静地陪着你～
你开心时，我愿意不顾形象的陪你一起大笑～
你无聊时，我愿意在旁边对你说冷笑话打发时间～
你肚子饿时，你愿意跟你一起去麦当劳啃薯条～

因为你是我朋友
所以这些事情都是理所当然的～
因为你是我朋友
所以你不需要客气的过分～
因为你是我朋友
所以你快乐我就快乐～
因为你是我朋友
所以花多少时间在一起玩都是值得的～

朋友就是当你抱头痛哭的时候扶着你肩膀的那个人
朋友就是当你面对人生挫折时一直紧握你的那双手
朋友就是喜欢你，也了解你的人

在满天星光那晚 因为倒影 －＞ －＞ －＞
星星都进到杯子里来了。。。
哪天，一起喝茶吧！用星星泡。。。

一个人的早餐只是一个蛋
两个人的早餐就是一顿爱
一个人的拥抱只能抱住风
两个人的拥抱真实得发痛

一个人的快乐多么单薄
两个人的快乐满出了你我
一个人的痛苦苦得没有尽头
两个人的痛苦至少有个人说说

朋友是～～
一辈子的事！！！

Instructions for l-i-f-e

1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
3. Follow the three R's: Respect for self, Respect for others and Responsibility for all your actions.
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
8. Spend some time alone everyday.
9. Open arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
11. Live a good, honorable life. then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. don't bring up the past.
14. Share your knowledge.it's a way to achieve immortality.
15. Be gentle with the earth.
16. Once a year, go some place you've never been before.
17. Remember that the best relationship is one which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

Tomorrow will be too late...

"If you're mad with someone, and nobody's there to fix the situation... You fix it. Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend. And if u don't, tomorrow can be too late."

"If you're in love with somebody, but that person doesn't know... tell her/him. Maybe today, that person is also in love with you. And if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late."

"If you still love a person that you think has forgotten you... tell her/him. Maybe that person has always loved you. And if you don't tell her/him today , tomorrow can be too late."

"If you need a hug of a friend... ask her/him for it. Maybe they need it more than you do. And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late."

"If you really have friends who you appreciate... tell them. Maybe they appreciate you as well. That if you don't and they leave or go far away today, tomorrow can be too late."

"If you love your parents, and never had the chance to show them... do it. Maybe you have them there to show them how you feel. That if you don't and they leave today, and then tomorrow can be too late."

喜欢与不喜欢

有人问：“你为什么喜欢一个人？”

我只能够说出为什么不喜欢一个人，却说不出为什么喜欢一个人。

喜欢一个人，是一种感觉。
不喜欢一个人，却是事实。

事实容易解释，感觉却难以言喻。

爱情是忽然有一个人，我们觉得一见如故，很想靠近它，我们的内分泌忽然起了翻天覆地的变化，很想拥抱他/她。以后，无论快乐或哀愁，我们也想不起当初为什么爱他/她。

只有当我们不爱一个人时，才会找出不爱他/她的原因，因为我们开始挑剔。任何一个人，只要你去挑剔，一定找得出缺点。越去挑剔，缺点越多，我们便可以说出为什么不喜欢他/她。

我们想买一件衣服时，即时发现它有小小瑕疵，埋怨几句，也肯迁就，因为只有这一间，而且我们太喜欢它了，瑕不掩瑜嘛！假使我们根本不想买那件衣服，它的小小瑕疵便是致命伤。我们更会女里的找出其他缺点，譬如实料不够挺，颜色太鲜艳，向售货员证实，我们不是随便来逛逛的，我有认真考虑过的呀！

分手可以有很多原因，结合却只有一个原因，原因就是：不需要原因！

找一个“懂”你的人

要找到真爱，便要找一个懂你的人。
这个人也许并不是十全十美，但因为他懂你；
你就认为他是十全十美的，就是这么一个“懂”字。

懂是什么？
当你遇到挫折时，他不说一句损你尊严的话；
当你意气用事时，他决不迁就，而会娓娓解说事理给你听；
当你心情不好时，他决不和你一般见事，而大吵大闹；
当你远隔千里，难得见面时，他也深信你；
当你愉快时，他也愉快而且会告诉你；
当你烦恼时，他也烦恼但不会轻易告诉你。

“懂”，是需要多少的了解，多少的体谅，多少爱心。
要找一个懂你的人，也许很难，但要有信心。
找一个懂你的人，也期许自己做一个懂他的人。

聪明的人，喜欢猜心；虽然每次都猜对了，却失去了自己的心；
傻气的人，喜欢给心；虽然每次都被笑了，却得到了别人的心。

有人……

有人记得你
有人相信你
有人信任你

有人想保护你
有人以你为荣
有人在想着你
有人在关心你
有人在想念你

有人想拥你入怀
有人想要接近你
有人想和你说话
有人想要拥抱你
有人想握你的手
有人希望你快乐

有人愿意为了你做任何事
有人很高兴你是他的朋友
有人整俨2812；不著地想念你
有人希望你就在他们身边

有人想告诉你他有多在乎你
有人希望你不要陷入困境中
有人感谢你曾经提供的帮助
有人希望你能发现他的存在
有人因你的成功而为你喝彩

有时候你一定忘记了
其实一直有人在关心你

幸福有三种……
1 亲情
2 友情
3 爱情

希望你把这三个幸福送给所有你在乎的珍惜的人。

Simple Rules to be HAPPY =)

No one can go back and make a brand new start.
Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain,
but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Disappointments are like road humps,
they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards.
Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on!

When you feel down because you didn't get what you want,
just sit tight and be happy,
because God has thought of something better to give you.

When something happens to you, good or bad,
consider what it means.
There's a purpose to life's events,
to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

You can't make someone love you,
all you can do is be someone who can be loved,
the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love,
than to lost the one you love because of pride.
We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love,
when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

Never abandon an old friend.
You will never find one who can take his place.
Friendship is like wine,
it gets beter as it grows older.

Poem

I got your back
You got mine,
I'll help you out
Anytime.

To see you hurt
To see you cry,
Makes me weep
And wanna die.

And if you agree
To never fight,
It wouldn't matter
Who's wrong or right.

If a broken heart
Needs a mend,
I'll be right there
To the end.

If your cheeks are wet
From drops of tears,
Don't you worry,
Let go of your fears.

Hand in hand
Love is sent,
We'll be friends
Till the end.

5 simple rules to be HAPPY

1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

Romantic Countries

These are the names of the some romantic countries in the world.

H.O.L.L.A.N.D Hope Our Love Lasts And Never Dies.
I.T.A.L.Y. I Trust And Love You.
L.I.B.Y.A. Love Is Beautiful; You Also.
F.R.A.N.C.E. Friendships Remain And Never Can End.
C.H.I.N.A. Come Here.. I Need Affection.
B.U.R.M.A. Between Us, Remember Me Always.
N.E.P.A.L. Never Ever Part As Lovers.
I.N.D.I.A. I Nearly Died In Adoration.
K.E.N.Y.A Keep Everything Nice, Yet Arousing.
C.A.N.A.D.A. Cute And Naughty Action that Developed into Attraction
K.O.R.E.A. Keep Optimistic Regardless of Every Adversity.
E.G.Y.P.T. Everything's Great, You Pretty Thing!
M.A.N.I.L.A. May All Nights Inspire Love Always.
P.E.R.U. Phorget (Forget) Everyone... Remember Us.
T.H.A.I.L.A.N.D. Totally Happy. Always In Love And Never Dull.

Bits

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have.
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing that you can't have them.
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be frateful.
10. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
11. There is always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
14. For one human being to love another: that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks. The ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.

Love is...

...getting passionate about someone.
...speaking her language.
...being understanding, not demanding.
...giving him another chance.
...wishing the music would never stop.
...wanting to look beautiful for him.
...dieting with her to make it easier for her.
...scratching her back before she falls asleep.
...showing your emotions.
...starting out with nothing but love.

A friend is...

• a tissue when you can't stop crying
• a shoulder when you feel like dying
• always listens when you have something to say
• a week when you just need a day
• a crutch when you have a broken heart
• some glue when everything falls apart
• a sun when the rain just won't stop
• your mom when you run into a cop
• phone call when you can't leave your home
• hand when you feel all alone
• wing if you want to fly
• understands without knowing why
• an ear for a secret to tell
• an aspirin when you feel unwell
• a love that can never let go

感情真得很微妙

当那个人喜欢你的时候，你不觉得自己喜欢他。
当他放弃的时候，你却发现自己已经喜欢了他。
这种遗憾也不算不大吧？

人就是这样。被人喜欢的时候，我们是多么的自恃？
当他大献殷勤的时候，我们无动于衷，也许还骄傲地觉得对方不是太配得起自己。
他尽管喜欢我吧，我可不是那么容易追求的。

当对方暗示和探听的时候，我们也假装不在乎。
我是有很多人喜欢的。爱上我的话，你也许要受折磨。

当对方对我们忠心耿耿的时候，我们认为那是理所当然的。
我的条件这样好，他还能爱上别人吗？

当他积极的时候，我往往不置可否。
我真的喜欢他吗？也许，我可以遇到更好的。他有很多缺点。

然而，当他变得消极，当他好像不再喜欢我，我却着急了。
他是不是以为我不会喜欢他呢？
我完全没有这个意思。我只是不想一切来得太快。

我唯有放下一点面子，向他暗示，我也是喜欢他的。
然而，他忽然变得很冷淡了。
这个时候有什么办法挽救？
对不起，已经没办法了。

有些话，是收不会的。有些爱，是不能儿戏的。
喜欢，就伸出手让对方知道。
感情，就是因为我们给了太多的理由跟注解，
所以我们就照着别人所下的定义走着。

我不喜欢太黏的生活，但是一旦我爱上了他的时候，
又不时地希望与他朝夕相处。那我到底做得对不对？

有时候，很多事情无需用对或错来概全。
尤其在完全没有公式的爱情世界中，
喜欢就是喜欢，不喜欢就是不喜欢。
再怎样的牺牲跟勉强都是得不到自己所要的。

茫茫人海中，你能找到几个跟你是契合的呢？
个性，相貌，生活，谈吐……
我们都不时地在每一次的见面中，
为着自己的幸福在打量着别人？

呵~好笑的是，对方也如此地对待自己。
100分……100分的人到底跑到哪里去了？
我们都一直找得自己的100分对象，
那我又有几分可以配得上人家？

在无欲无求的生活中，或许就能遇上了你的另一半。

可能他不是100分，可能他不能陪你走到尽头，
但是在这段岁月中，也就是你找到自己的。