Sunday, March 29, 2009

心情~

天空不会永远蔚蓝,
随时准备一把心情的伞,
鞋子湿了换一双,
心情湿了凉一凉,
孤单的时候想想我,
快乐的时候也不要忘掉我,
因为你是我永远的朋友……

Saturday, March 28, 2009

幸福在哪里

一粥一饭,当思来处不易,请惜福。

能平平安安渡过一天就是福。

只自觉心安,东南西北都好。

掌握机会布施,是有福之人。

契合空性,铲除自我执着,才有自在逍遥的人生。

多一物多一心,少一物少一念。

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有一天,小狮子问它的妈妈:“幸福在什么地方?”

狮子妈妈说:“幸福就在你的尾巴上。”

于是,小狮子不停的追着自己的尾巴。

不过,它追了一整天也追不到……

它把这情形告诉妈妈。

狮子妈妈笑说:“其实你不用刻意找寻幸福,只要你一直向前走,幸福便会自然得跟着你!”

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Never underestimate your actions

One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books.

I thought to myself, 'Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd.' I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him...He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.

My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, 'Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives.' He looked at me and said, 'Hey thanks!' There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.. He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.

He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes.We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, 'Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!' He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.. When we were seniors we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke. I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem. He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship..

Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak

Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him. Boy, sometimes I was jealous! Today was one of those days. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, 'Hey, big guy, you'll be great!' He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. 'Thanks,' he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began, 'Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends.... I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story.'

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. 'Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable..'

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

Never underestimate the power of your actions.. With one small gesture you can change a person's life. For better or for worse.

God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in some way. Look for God in others.

Monday, March 16, 2009

祝福你

天上星星亮晶晶,

一闪一闪放光明,

抬头望月闪眼睛,

心中浮现出友情,

日日夜夜祝福你,

幸福美好的人生。

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Friend in different languages…

Friend in different languages…
Iranian – DOST
German – FREUND
Hebrew – CHAVER
French – AMI
Pinoy – KAIBIGAN
Dutch – VREND
Mexican – AMIGO

For ME…just simply “YOU”…

:-)

一把伞:把人生的风雨撑起!
一双手:把生命的寒潮拂去!
一脸微笑:开在人心的荒漠里!
一声问候:滋润在你的生活里!
一个短信:愿你平安!

Saturday, March 7, 2009

Warren Buffett's advice for 2009

Hard work: All hard work bring a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.

Laziness: A sleeping lobster is carried away by the water current.

Earnings: Never depend on a single source of income. (At least make your investments get you second earning).

Spending: If you buy things you don't need, you'll soon sell things you need.

Savings: Don't save what is left after spending; spend what is left after saving.

Borrowings: The borrower becomes the lender's slave.

Accounting: It's no use carrying an umbrella, if your shoes are leaking.

Auditing: Beware of little expenses; a small leak can sink a large ship.

Risk-taking: Never test the depth of the river with both feet. (Have an alternate plan ready).

Investment: Don't put all your eggs in one basket.